June 9, 2011

Before 2011, i use to only remember birth-dates of almost all my friends/family/relatives etc. I'm pretty good at that. But after 2011, i realized that even death-dates should also be memorized & be remembered, similar to birth-dates! Feb 18, April 22, June 9 etc. Exactly last year, during this time, June 9, i lost my sweet mother. This day was the last time i ever had heard her voice/spoken to her. I'll never-ever hear/talk with her once again in my entire life. June 9, 2011 was the worst day of my life. You may forget birth-dates but these kind of dates will never be forgotten!

So what i want to convey over here is that life is very much unpredictable. We think, we know it very well but it's full of surprises. In the last year, 2011, this very same me has gone through so many stuffs/mental trauma/swing of emotions & feelings etc that I'm scared to even think back & remember them! When i sit alone, i don't dare to remember them. It might sound silly but its 'me' who knows what all i have been through, every single day, every hour, every minute, every seconds & every damn moments of last year 2011. I wish nobody ever dare should experience the same. 

Life thought me a several lessons in past year & to summarize in short, i would say please follow 3 'L's in your life. This is what i have learnt. The 3 'L's are :

1. Live
2. Laugh
3. Love

Live - Every Second of your life. Always "live" the moment. Live through it, good or bad, happy or sad, just "live" through it & deal. Don't give-up what-so-ever.

Laugh openly. Its free of cost. Nobody charges you for laughing. Don't hesitate to laugh. Laugh loudly & openly. Also try to make others laugh. I would suggest you to keep a target that everyday, you will try to make at least 1 person laugh! I try to do this everyday & till now, I'm successful. Sometimes, i might not have made anybody around me to laugh but that doesn't stop me. One day, even i had tried to make a stupid joke to a grocery shopkeeper & had made him laugh. Thus achieving my target :-P

Finally Love. Very important. Do love/care people around you. Love from heart. And i would say there is no harm in letting the people know how much you love/care them. Please do express it by either saying or showing it. Keep doing this regularly coz as i said anything can happen in life at any moment!

So guys, this is all what i wanted to share. Earlier, i use to wait for June month to come. It always use to be full of fun. Most probably because it will be center of the year, half year would be past & half year remains, schools use to start, new books, new uniform, rainy season, new dresses & most importantly it use to have my birthday in it. But now i really cannot pass the memory of June 9 to go ahead & celebrate June 16. Seems my brain got stuck at June 9! I always wish now that a year should have just 11 months. June shouldn't come at all. It will bring me back the memories of June 9.

But i try hard to move on by following the three 'L's which are stated above. Hope i pass off June 9 & be "okay". So keep in mind the 3 'L's stated & do try to follow them :)

PS: Somebody had asked me that 2010 has few blogs & 2012 has blogs updated regularly, but 2011 has not even a single blog! why so? (I hope now they got the ans)