Judges

Do you think, only courts will have judges? You are wrong. Judges are everywhere. Every individual whom you meet in your day to day life is an excellent intrinsic judge. You ask question of what do they judge, they judge YOU. The way you dress, the way you speak, the way you act. Every minute action of yours is judged by several so called "judges" around you.

Once upon a time, I assumed people used to judge less and only on certain matters, but since last decade, I can see that everyone judges you in every possible way. Lot of judges in various areas of expertise are coming out in recent times. I used to be scared of doing certain actions or saying something or behaving something in front of a group of people (or may i call them judges?) thinking, what will they "think of me". This inbuilt thought in my head was causing lot of friction to do every small things in my way.

Lately, I have learnt that no matter what you do, people JUDGE you. Earlier I used to think, if I don't do "this" action then they might not judge me. But I was wrong. If they decide to judge you, then you'll be judged irrespective of what you do. Whether you choose to attend a party or not, whether you say something or not, whether you buy some stuff or not, whether you like something or not, whether you pick up the call or not, either you wear sandals or shoes, whether you eat too much or not, either you eat with spoon or bare hands, either you drive 2 wheeler or 4 wheeler, either you like Salman Khan or Aamir Khan, either you support BJP or AAP, and recently the level as has even dropped to this low that people even judge you whether you message in an whatsapp group or not, either you use facebook or twitter and they even judge you on what type of fwd messages you send or what kind of posts you hit "Like" & share or tweet & RT. Either you do something or the other thing, hard truth is people are going to judge you.

So in conclusion, what I would like to say is, no matter how people judge of you, don't stop doing what you were supposed to do thinking, what others might think. If it feels right, this is what you wanted to do then just do it. Let judges judge. Its their work to judge. Due to the thought of thinking, someone is judging you, don't lose your uniqueness.

In modern era of whatsapp & facebook & internet & technology, everyone is just following the herd of what others are doing thinking, what "people" will judge if I do things differently. Each and everyone of us are unique in our own way and we are losing that uniqueness with this poisonous thought of "what will others think". STOP IT. I say, screw these so called "judges" & bring on your uniqueness.