Relatives

I classify relationships into two broad categories, breakable and non-breakable. Breakable relations are those which you choose to start and non-breakable are those which are implied as soon as you are born. Another name for this non-breakable relationship is ‘relatives’. Relatives are not chosen by you, but destiny chooses them for you including your parents and siblings. What do I mean by non-breakable is that no matter what they do or what you do or what happens or what not happens or how far they go or how far you go or no matter after how long time or you fight with them or they fight with you or they insult you or you insult them or whatever, you cannot break them. These relations are intact and non-breakable.

Whereas take an example of suppose if you had a room-mate then if something goes wrong or if you don’t like him or you fight with him or for any other wired reason, you can break that relation. From then on, you are no more his roommate. Nobody addresses you as he is your roommate. They might address that, earlier this person use to be your roommate. But they can no more address you as he is your roommate. The key word is “use to be” which is very important to distinguish my broad classification of relationships. Even relations like friendship, co-worker, manager, teacher, neighbor etc can be broken! These all relations fall into the category of might be addressed as “use to be” if relations broke. Hence they are named as breakable relations. This is not at all possible in case of non-breakable relations.

Assume if you have an uncle (relative) and he is drunk (just please assume) and you don’t like him at all. No matter what you do to break the relation, people still address him as your uncle only! It’s not just about people addressing, but he remains your uncle forever. There is no way that “use to be” can be applied in this case of non-breakable relations and hence the name. The same case applies with your brother or cousins or mother or aunty or father or any relative. No matter what they do or what you do, these relations are intact. Even if you don’t speak with them for life long, the relation is intact.

Without dragging too much and making blog lengthier, I would like to convey my realization. Don’t ever think of breaking non-breakable relations (mother, father, brother, sister, uncle, aunty, cousins, relatives). You can’t break them, no matter if you hate them or don’t like them or if they are irritating or if they did something wrong or anything. It is impossible to break. Realize this truth.  Do not get disappointed by trying to break it by fighting with them or ignoring them or playing with their emotions etc and realize later that it’s non-breakable. Even if you try breaking them, then trust me, it affects your own life and your own happiness. So I would suggest that you have only two choices to deal in case of non-breakable relations. Either you don’t break them and keep it GOOD or try breaking them and turn it BAD. There’s no way other than these two! Take my advice and just try turning all your bad non-breakable relations into good and experience how your life turns beautiful :)

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